Everyone looks at my girlfriend
FAQ on Coronavirus and Mefi : check before posting, cite sources; how to block content by tags. She is beautiful and more like the cheerleader type you always secretly had a crush on in school while I am a rather more scruffy ex skateboarder and I am completely aware that she fell for my personality before my looks. Her longest relationship so far has been two years while mine is eleven. My biggest problem is that whenever we go out, prior to her introducing me as her boyfriend, guys are always hitting on her. She has done so much to reassure me that she isn't interested but I am having a hard time getting over it.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: Gym Class Heroes: Cupid's Chokehold ft. Patrick Stump [OFFICIAL VIDEO]
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Whenever I'm out with my girlfriend and we're walking down the high-street, almost every single man that we walk past looks at my girlfriend I mean they really stare. I know why they are staring. But it really annoys me and make me quite furious actually.
I know what a lot of men are like and I know that most men are forever checking girls out, but when they can clearly see that she has a boyfriend, Why do they still do it? Why are they such animals? As of yet, I've never done anything about it I want to do something so bad to them, but how can I? And whenever I have spoken to my girlfriend about it It's almost like she's oblivious to it!! And by the way, I'm a very level-headed guy I'm not being paranoid. My girlfriend often wears quite fitted clothes which hug her frame.
I have spoken to her about how these clothes don't help the problem A lot of her blouses have low necks so when she wears these tops, people are able to see part of her cleavage and bra. I would say it is difficult for a polite and respectful woman to meet a genuinely nice man these days who has a good heart.
I'm afraid you can't stop men looking at your girlfriend. You can approach them if you see them doing so, but then that could turn nasty. Often, the men who will look at your girlfriend will be thuggish and because of their primitive ways are unlikely to end up with a woman at all let alone a respectful woman. So if you're not confrontational, then I advise it's probably best to not get in a fight.
But I believe every man should be able to defend themselves so maybe join a boxing club, so if you ever find yourself in a sticky situation then you'll manage okay.
Obviously your girlfriend is only interested in you and seeing as she has you secured so to speak and seeing as you have already spoken to her about these concerns, I wonder why she still feels the need to dress like she does. I know women want to look good, but if she realises what other men are doing which is essentially perving on your partner, sorry for the crude language she should understand how that is making you feel. Go get an ugly girlfriend then. How dare you try to tell your girlfriend to change herself so that YOU can feel more comfortable.
That's the exact reason why saudi women are forced to wear those black headdresses It's basically a statement that men enforced that the woman is his property and therefore no man is allowed to look at her but him because that's the way he wants it. You're acting no different pal. Oh- and you're gf is not oblivious by the way. She knows perfectly well, she just doesn't care and is avoiding the issue with you because you're being a tard.
If these guys were making lude remarks or something then I can understand you unleashing some whoopass on them Dude, you've got some serious possesive tendancies. You need to go smoke a joint and chill out.
You can't control other people and you shouldn't even try to control your girlfriend. It's only your problem, nobody else's. And nothing bad is going to happen, unless you start confronting strangers on the street or arguing with your girlfriend.
You need to work out why you think it is a problem for you and what you should do about it. Perhaps you think you not good enough for her or she will be attracted to one of these strangers while you are there and dump you on the spot. Clearly, as she is your girlfriend and she hasn't done it yet, even when you are not there it is unlikely that's going to happen. But if it does happen you will be able to deal with it. You can't control the behavior of other people, and your SO obviously enjoys the attention.
That's not a fundamentally bad thing, although perhaps she could occasionally compromise as a show of understanding. The only thing you can do is understand your reaction and temper it: if you trust her, ultimately, you'll just have to deal with the jealousy of the guys looking at her, and recognize that you're the lucky one. And physical confrontation isn't the answer anyway--there's nothing pathetic about not enjoying confrontational behavior.
You sound exactly like my husband when we were in our 20's I have to say, when your girlfriend says she doesn't see what you talking about, she probably means it. I didn't notice either until it was pointed out to me. That was when I started to pay attention more to people who were around me. It did start to get a little more obvious later on, Strangers coming up and asking him if I was his girlfriend and telling him he was lucky that I was hot and of course there were also the others who were just plain rude.
Funny thing is, I never saw myself that way. My husband felt the same way as you and still today doesn't like confrontations, although he can fight, he likes to keep peace which is one of the things I like about him.
Just hold your head high, not concededly though, big turn off to a lot of women, and realize and see that she is your girlfriend. Don't worry about the others, it happens. Firstly, the problem lies with you and not your girlfriends clothing. You need to be very careful here as you are on the cusp of being controlling. Men will stare, its a fact of life. However, instead of getting annoyed at them you should be smug with the knowledge that she is yours They can look but only you can touch.
The problem as i said is you. You dont like tthem staring because deep down you are insecure and are worried that your girlfriend will leave you. Im quite certain your gf does not notice or even care 2 hoots if men stare. She is with you. If you start to blame her for this by critising the way she dresses you will inevitably lose her.
I bet she's really pretty, and you're insanely lucky to have her. Just have confidence in yourself and the relationship, it really doesn't mean a lot to be checked out, she's oblivious to it anyway, so it's not hurting anybody. Every girl I know, including myself, aren't really aware that guys are checking them out, for some reason, but the boyfriends always notice, I mean you must have checked out at least one girl this past year, so it's no big deal : x.
You are lucky, and you should be happy that people are looking that means that she is really pretty. When they look they are envious of you and you should feel proud. I don't want other men to look!! Answer Save. Favourite answer. Most men in this world are animals She no longer has any need to dress to impress men because she's found YOU! I would have thought that a loving girl in her situation would understand Relationships end, and you are going the right way to sabotage it.
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She might just be looking to test your confidence, or she might be looking because she feels some fleeting attraction for those guys, just like you feel fleeting attraction for random women you see. Either way, you have to maintain your confidence, otherwise you will cause her to either cheat on you or break up with you. However, the truth is, we are all different and we all want different things when it comes to relationships. Everyone is different and everyone wants different things, and this is as true for women as it is for men.
Whenever I'm out with my girlfriend and we're walking down the high-street, almost every single man that we walk past looks at my girlfriend I mean they really stare. I know why they are staring.